With the emerge of online dating, many partners
are not aware what to do on the first date,
what to accept and what not to accept, what to expose and what not to say, how
to dress to impress on the first date. First date impression is very important
when it comes to dating.Your first appearance matters a lot.He are five tips
that will help you on your first date.
1.How should
I dress.
This is
one of the question that first comes in the head of a person going for a date.He/she
looks in all cloths around and really wonders what should I wear for the big
day.Some people will try to fit all cloths and try to chose the ones they feel
they look smart in them.
What you
should wear depends entirely on where
the date will be or where you are going.Many of first dates are usually
dinner dates and its good to go for smart casual.It is a dinner date,dress to
kill and impress you partner.
If the
date is a daytime ,go for jeans or blouse. You will look smart in them and you
will definitely impress.If you are doing Go Ape dress in joggers.
If you
cannot walk in high heels comfortably avoid them because they will make you
very uncomfortable and you will not enjoy walking in the park or around the
date venue.Men,tie is not always very important. Dress in a cool shirt and you
will be okay.
2. What should I talk about or ask
Most
people find it hard to keep the conversation flowing from the time you meet and
the time you part. You really what you will talk with a person who you rarely
know or you have ever been involved with.
This is
how you deal with this. Play it cool. Avoid giving short answers like yes and no.
They bring boredom in the date. Always keep the conversation lively with very
open questions about ones lifes,what he takes about certain life issues and
what he thinks is right or wrong. Some of the open questions are like what your
hobbies? What you ambitions? Do you love travelling. Closed questions bring
boredom and the conversation will last for a short time.
Open questions help one to clear the nervousness of
meeting a person you rarely know.
3. Where
should we go for our first dinner?
This is
another question that you may find hard to decide on especially when you
are not aware what your partner may take about you if you take him/her on a
date in a club, hotel etc.Places that are mostly gone by many people are
dinner,cinema or a picnic. However its good to have a surprise date when your
partner may not be aware of the place you are going. There is nothing wrong
with having a date on a club.Its a good place to meet for the first time if
especially you are not ready for a serious relationship.
4.Shoud I accept gifts?
Its not
wrong to accept gifts.Men will always like to spoil a lady with nice gifts that
will make them feel luved.To men Marks&Spencer’s are the best collection
that will not break the bank.Also a scented candle can also be a nice gift that
will make her remember you.
5.I
should pay because I am the man
Some will will like also to cater for the cost.If
she does saw insists on paying half half.Dont let her pay for the whole bill
especially if it is a first date.
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